DIVERSITY OF IDEAS

By: Zoë Muntaner

Santa Monica City Council meetings can be a hoot or a total bummer, depending of your idea of fun.  City Hall steps where the Santa Monica Area Interfaith Council hosted a local Community Vigil for the Orlando victims was a setting for a hopeful outcome, after all we ended the vigil singing PEACE, SALAM, SHALOM.  You would think that transferred to City Chambers, correct?  It depends on your idea of peace.

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A person places a rose by a flag during a vigil at The Center, a community center for the LGBT community, Sunday, June 12, 2016, in Las Vegas. The vigil was for the victims of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando. (AP Photo/John Locher)

I’m so glad I have this outlet, the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. If I don’t get my two minutes extended to finish an important presentation, I sit in a comfy chair or bed and write.  My voice is read globally from a phone, laptop or mobile device.  Thank you Jesus, Mary, Moses and all the prophets before me.  Speaking about prophets who were often persecuted — not an easy existence — when our City Manager Rick Cole told me he thought I was one of the prophetic voices in Santa Monica, I didn’t know how to react.  Is that a compliment or a premonition?  Last week I was TAKEN,  spent 5 days in captivity.  I was abused and my civil rights were violated left and right.  I was not charged with any crime.  My crime is advocating for the homeless, I’ve been voicing my opposition to the harassment and criminalization of this vulnerable population.  Remember a statement from a previous post?  My commitment to use my voice for the voiceless?  I walk my talk.  Is it a crime to be poor?  Is it a crime to be mentally ill?   The lack of compassion from members of the Santa Monica Police Department is a scandal in the making, actually is a scandal period, is made already.   The lack of ACTION from our city staff is an embarrassment.  Mr. Cole, is time to use that moral imperative you spoke two city council meetings ago.  Where is the moral compass of Santa Monica?  Wait for the story, it has so many layers, twists, and turns that I’m going back to my New York storytelling roots, tell it on stage to broadcast via livestream.  Believe the hype, it is gripping stuff.

”We are here today because we have a power we have yet to exercise” ~Eric Garcetti, Los Angeles Mayor on TACO Challenge Speech

I’m here to exercise the power of my voice.  I won’t be silenced!  Read previous posts, I LOVE MY FIRST AMENDMENT.  You mess with it, you are messing with a whole powerful global industry.  Do you think I’m fighting this battle alone? Seriously?  Bring it!  I’m fearless.  When it comes to standing for my rights and injustice of the powerless & voiceless, who are harassed day in and day out in our city and around the globe, something kicks in.  Think global, act local, I’m a localist!  For now, I’ll be focusing on local issues, because someone has to do the job,  it feels like a calling to me.

Back to City Council tonight, after reading Bill Bauer Monday Commentary on the Santa Monica Daily Press, I had hopes.  You would think council members read his column, apparently not.  Since he is way better writer than I am, here is a bit:

“The frustration level mounts, people become more unhappy  and dissatisfied with the way they are being served -or ignored.  Special interests are taking charge and we know what they want – benefit for their causes and conditions over the needs and the desires of the public.” ~Bill Bauer, Columnist Santa Monica Daily Press

Tony Vasquez provided enough fuel for me to write all night.  But I have a previous engagement to attend.  The order of business is IDEAS LA.  I’m writing this post, directly and live from the Broad Stage, in the glamorous city of Santa Monica.

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IDEAS Los Angeles is a project by Tel Aviv University-American Friends in partnership with dozens of corporations, private businesses, community organizations, institutes of higher learning and media outlets to create a space where global business leaders, futurists, studio heads, movie and television producers, healthcare providers, doctors, thought leaders, entrepreneurs, Tel Aviv University administrators, professors, and alumni can come together and share ideas.  IDEAS LA (Israel, Digital, Entrepreneurs, Arts, and Science) is hosted by American Friends of Tel Aviv University, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting Israel’s largest institution of higher learning.

IDEAS wants to inspire people to think deeper and more broadly by engaging with inventors and innovators tackling some of the most exciting challenges in the world today.  American Friends of Tel Aviv University supports Israel’s most influential, comprehensive, and sought-after center of higher learning, Tel Aviv University (TAU). TAU ranked #75 globally and #1 in Israel in a 2015 Reuters survey of the 100 most innovative universities. It is one of a handful of elite universities rated as the best producers of successful startups, and TAU alumni rank #9 in the world for the amount of venture capital they attract.

It’s not an official IDEAS event without the brightest, most creative minds speaking!  That’s why I’m here, to pick their brains.  So far is a hoot!  This is the place to be today and tomorrow. The code LATINX will get each registrant 50% off all ticket prices.  Courtesy of yours truly, DIVERSITY MATTERS.

IDEAS on the future of digital technology in, Health, Lifestyle, Entertainment, and Media.  I GOT INVESTORS SUPER INTERESTED IN FUNDING DIVERSITY MATTERS! Woohoo!!!!  If you are an entrepreneur at any stage, from seed to funded, you must be here, is all I have to say.  Run don’t walk.  It is the event of the season!  Just before Summer Solstice, great timing, two days before Shabbat, perfection!SelfieMirror_20160616_111658

Inspiring leaders and visionaries like, Jonathan Littman President of Bruckheimer Television; Ayelet Zurer – Actress and Producer; Jonathan Gluck – Senior Executive and Corporate Counsel at Heritage Provider Network; Robert Watson – President of Nanthealth; Alon Shtruzman – President of Keshet International; Marc Graboff – President of Global Business & Legal Affairs for Production Management & Studios at Discovery Communications are just a few of the 70+ industry leaders that will be sharing their vision for the future of digital technology, at IDEAS Los Angeles.

Here is the LINE UP:

Adam Becker, Founder & CEO, Egg Stage
Adam Mendler, CEO, The Veloz Group
Alexis Madrigal, Editor in Chief, Fusion TV
Alicia Menendez, Anchor & Special Correspondent, Fusion TV
Alon Shtruzman, CEO, Keshet International
Andrew Wallenstein, Co-Editor-in-Chief, Variety
Audrey Melnik, Founder, Funnel Ventures
Billy Shaw Susanto, Co-Founder & CEO, Pundit
Brendan Farrell, Founder, How Loud Inc.
Dr. Bonnie Feldman, Principal, Dr Bonnie 360
Dr. Brennan Spiegel,  Director of Health Services Research, Cedars-Sinai Health System
Brian MacMahon, Head Honcho, Expert Dojo
Caitlin Thompson, Director of Content, Acast
Caspar Van Winterfeldt, Co-Founder & Managing Director, Baron VR
Chris Aston, Co-Founder & COO, Pundit
Dave Whelan, Managing Director, Bespoke Business Strategy Inc.
Rabbi David Wolpe, Chief Rabbi, Sinai Temple
Edmond Banayan, Founder & Editor, iHealthcare Perspectives
Fern Langham, Co-Founder, Amplify Effect
Gene Gurkoff, Founder & CEO, Charity Miles
George Eleftheriou, Co-Founder & CEO, Feel
Gilad Neumann, CEO, DogTV
Haris Tsirmpas, Co-Founder & CTO, Feel
Harry Nelson, Founder & Managing Partner, Nelson Hardiman
Heather Rees, Founder, Amplify Effect
Hillary Frey, Executive Editor, Fusion TV
Indu Subaiya, Co-Founder, Health 2.0
James Poole, Co-Founder & CTO, PopChest
Jessica Naziri, Tech Contributor, USA Today
John Bates, Principal, Executive Speaking Success
Jordan Mendler, CTO, The Veloz Group
Dr. Julian Henley, Co-Founder, HealOra
Prof. Joseph Klafter, President, Tel Aviv University
Karen Allen, Karen Allen Consulting
Katherine Lehr, VP of Operations, POLITICO
Klaus Badelt, Co-Founder, Kinonation
Lia Kislev, CEO, Wishi
Liz Plank, Senior Producer & Correspondent, Vox.com
Marc Graboff, President of Global Business & Legal Affairs for Production, Discovery Communications, Inc.
Mayaan Cohen, CEO, Hello Heart
Mette Dyrberg, Founder, MyMee
Mike Stone, CEO & Founder, MakersKit
Miriam Illions, Co-Founder & CMO, Hometalk
Moe Mernick, Head of Business Development, Hometalk
Neal Kaufman, Chief Medical Officer, Canary Health
Nick Desai, Founder & CEO, Heal
Oren Gavriely, CEO, BeatMed
Oron Afek, CEO, BookMD
Rob Rader, General Counsel, Ovation TV
Robert Watson, President, NantHealth
Roey Tsemah, Founder, Whitestone music
Ron Levi, Chief Content Officer, DogTV
Ryan Foland, Director, Blackstone LaunchPad at UCI
Seth Shapiro, CEO, New Amsterdam Media
Steve Baltin, Host, Riffing With on Hulu
Steve Bradbury, Principal, Vlocity Digital
Valerian Bennet, Founder & CEO, PopChest
Dr. Uri Nevo, Dept. of BioMedical Engineering, Tel Aviv University
Prof. Yair Bar Haim, School of Psychological Sciences, Tel Aviv University
Prof. Yael Hanien, Head of Nano Lab, Tel Aviv University

The initial lineup of featured start-ups includes:

Amplify Effect
Beatmed
CharityMiles
DinTV
EggStage
Heal
Healora
Hometalk
How Loud
Kinonation
MakersKit
PopChest
Pundit
Sentio Solutions
Whitestone Music

For more information or to purchase tickets to the IDEAS LA conference, please visit: http://www.ideaslosangeles.com, use code LATINX for a 50% off all ticket prices.

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SPIRITUAL DIVERSITY

By: Zoë Muntaner 

WOW,  Pentecost was a diversity fest.  This day became especially significant for Christians because, seven weeks after the resurrection of Jesus, during the Jewish celebration of Shavuot/Pentecost, the Holy Spirit was poured out upon his first followers, thus empowering them for their mission and gathering them together as a church.

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“Pentecost”by Jean Restaut II, 1732 Public Domain

 

“Now there were staying in Jerusalem God-fearing Jews from every nation under heaven.  When they heard this sound, a crowd came together in bewilderment, because each one heard their own language being spoken. Utterly amazed, they asked: “Aren’t all these who are speaking Galileans?  Then how is it that each of us hears them in our native language?  Parthians, Medes and Elamites; residents of Mesopotamia, Judea and Cappadocia, Pontus and Asia, Phrygia and Pamphylia, Egypt and the parts of Libya near Cyrene; visitors from Rome  (both Jews and converts to Judaism); Cretans and Arabs—we hear them declaring the wonders of God in our own tongues!”  Amazed and perplexed, they asked one another, “What does this mean?” Some, however, made fun of them and said, “They have had too much wine.” ~Acts 2:5-13

That’s how I feel at times when I go to City Council meetings. As if everyone is speaking a different language, but hearing the discussion in their native tongue. Their interests are at stake.  If land use is in the agenda, for sure I’m perplexed and amazed.  Maybe they had some drinks beforehand (I’m not talking about the councilmembers).  It has not crossed my mind until now.  Some people are drunk with power, that’s why I support term limits for City Council.  Is time we bring reform to that area or our government.

Last Sunday was the church birthday.  The night before, I walked to St. Anne’s for a quiet moment of silent reflection and noticed red programs stacked in a stand.  They read:

Receive the Holy Spirit. Whose sins you forgive are forgiven them, and whose sins you retain are retained. ~John 20:22-23  

Sin is  particularly interesting to me because, like most humans,  I’ve sinned.  Through confession, I own it in order to move on and change direction.  I show up at life imperfectly.  In the spirit of keeping it real:

“Perfection is shallow, unreal and fatally uninteresting” ~Anne Lamott

Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” ~John 8:7  

The concept of sin is heavy for most people that lack a broader concept of the word or its meaning.  It was tough for me until I studied other traditions with meanings that allowed me to accept myself the way I am: imperfectly perfect.  Lack of love or missing the mark are two of my favorites.  Catholic guilt is a terrible thing.

“Our virtues are made by love, and our sins caused by the lack of it.”~Hazrat Inayat Khan

On Sunday, I went to yoga class early.  I placed my mat at the back of the room and stretched on my own. My teacher had a substitute.  Fifteen minutes into it, I started to cry.  “What’s going on?  I don’t have time for this, it’s Sunday, I want to have some Zen, not a breakdown.”  Then I remembered going to an Evangelical church in Malibu years ago.  The moment I walked into the classroom where they met and listened to music, I started to cry.  The friend who brought me to the service told me, “Don’t worry, that’s the Holy Spirit, is a normal reaction, just let it go”  Was this the Holy Spirit at work in the yoga studio?  Hmm. Here we go.

By the time I arrived to St. Anne’s my body was feeling ready to receive whatever message was there for me to get. After the service, I approached  the deacon and priest to ask if it would be possible to bless my laptop.  I’ve been  working on some stories for a while now, way before I launched the blog, without knowing their destination.  I want to make sure I’m writing them for the right reasons.  I would like to feel there is purpose behind their publication.  It would be nice to feel I’m transcribing them instead of writing them, to have any sense of ego out of the picture.  I’d like to feel I’m doing some service to the community.  I’d like them to come from a pure heart because, well….the issues are not particularly pure.

Both Deacon Raul Molino and Father Anthony Mbaegbu prayed, it was quite beautiful, poetry, a holy moment.  I cried again, a lot!  The deacon looked into my eyes and said:

“That is the work of the prophet, this is your calling”.

– Oh, no,no,no,no.no!  Father, you don’t understand, I’m just writing a blog, there is no prophetic business in that, I’m a sinner, that’s why I come to church, to heal, not to be scared like that sir!

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He shared some spiritual wisdom. I was scared and stayed for another service.  I sobbed for hours.  If the Holy Spirit manifests itself through tears like my friend told me in Malibu years before, I definitely received it.  No doubt about it.

Father Jorge Guillen is a theology scholar, he gave a memorable sermon with historical background, current church politics, weaved with spiritual insight and guidance.  It was a first for me, it felt like professors you still remember from college because they were real, really good.  I was lucky, he prayed for me after the service and with that, there was some confidence and peace to go about the rest of my day. I stopped by their cafeteria to eat some of the Mexican food the Guadalupanas cook every Sunday and learned more about their community.

I normally attend St. Monica’s at 5:30 PM service with Monsignor Torgeson.   Both of them are Catholic communities but their demographic composition is distinctively different.  St. Anne’s has an element of social justice that is not as evident in St. Monica’s.  St. Anne’s is a little piece of East LA in Santa Monica, most of their services are in Spanish and the one in English is given by a Nigerian priest who is here for his PhD at LMU.  You see where I’m going?  We live in a segregated city.  Is alarming to me that the land use we discussed last week at City Council promotes further segregation by having affordable housing off site.  It could be easily controlled by the City Council.   Wellbeing? Compassion? Diversity?  Seriously?   We can’t call our city any of that if we plant the seeds of further segregation.

Some years ago Jodi Low, Coordinator of the Santa Monica Farmer’s Market told me that perhaps the Virginia Park Farmer’s Market was more attractive to me than the downtown Saturday market because it was in the Pico neighborhood, where the poor community of Latinos and blacks traditionally shop. And …I’m the politically incorrect?  Thank God I know who I am, and recognize the ill-managed social training of some city employees.  However, at this day and age is still shocking someone makes a comment like that in a city like Los Angeles is beyong my comprehension.   Santa Monica is a special pocket in LA.  Since I have to pace myself,  I will leave Laura Avery for next post. I would like to draw from the words of Jesus in his crucifixion:

“Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” ~Luke 23;34

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I have a good radar to evaluate intentionality.  Some people know exactly what they are doing, they just don’t care.  Two years ago while in campaign for City Council, I got in the elevator at City Hall to find an employee from the City Clerk’s office who told me: “keep doing what you are doing, they are scared” . My intention is not to scare anyone, my intention is to have an honest conversation about  some issues that don’t align with the so-called City Wellbeing and do not affirm the Charter for Compassion.  After the conversation we can go about the business of making change.  Shall we?  If we keep ignoring the white elephant in the room, you know what happens: “If you don’t pay attention, God will turn up the volume”.  On another instance Rebecca Adams, Administrative Staff Assistant who used to to be in the City Clerk’s office told me -as if she was incharge of the office- “come another time because everyone was busy and they can’t help you”.  Esterlina Lugo was ready to help me, but Adams was set on using her entitlement to make herself feel superior.  It does not stop there.  Last week, I sat on the same table she was sitting with other staff, waiting for the COSW meeting to start, she stood and left with someone I was striking a conversation to wait in front of the door.  This juvenile behavior belongs to a scene in Mean Girls not a city that claims Wellbeing, Compassion, Empathy, Diversity & Inclusion.  This stuff is relegated to films and fiction circa 1950 in the South. Do you agree?

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Am I the problem?  That is debatable.  If you want to keep Santa Monica a city of of racial tension and discrimination, perhaps I am.  On the other hand, if you want Santa Monica to be a real city of Wellbeing, Compassion, Diversity & Inclusion, I believe I’m part of the solution.  I tweeted yesterday a new mantra: “Zoë, just keep writing” , I t came to me in a moment of quiet reflection.  That is my job, to report from the frontlines, shine a light to issues that seem to get no attention but influence a fundamental part of our identity as citizens and our community.

BETRAYAL

I was betrayed on Friday.  Perhaps I had a delayed reaction and was vulnerable and fragile by Sunday, therefore all the crying.  Church was a place to find solace.  One thing is when someone let you down, betrayal is a whole different business.  Is a horrible feeling.

In Dante’s “Divine Comedy”, the ninth Circle of Hell is ringed by Biblical and Classical Giants. Nimrod , Ephialtes, and Antaeus are found here. THIS IS ONE TOUGH CROWD!

“The lowest, blackest, and farthest from Heaven. Well do I know the way.” — Virgil

 

Treachery is the ninth Circle of Hell. This last circle is dedicated to those people who betrayed their loved ones, friends, best friends, countries, cities, guests, and even to their masters.  YES PEOPLE, CITIES!  Are you betraying yours?  According to Dante, the end game is not pretty.  For me the best strategy in Public Relations crisis management is: own it, apologize, change directions.

That is my prayer for you.

DIVERSITY SLAPP

By: Zoë Muntaner

Santa Monica Pony Protester Marcy Winograd Wins – Court of Appeal Dismisses Pony Ride Operators’ Lawsuit as a SLAPP.

In a victory for legislative advocates, the California Court of Appeal (Division 5), a panel of three Justices, unanimously reversed a lower court ruling, and dismissed former Santa Monica pony ride operators’ Tawni Angel and Jason Nestor’s lawsuit against Marcy Winograd as a SLAPP – Strategic Lawsuit Against Public Participation – designed to chill public debate.

In issuing the ruling, the Court said Winograd’s accusations of animal abuse were protected by California’s legislative privilege.

“I’m grateful that the Court of Appeal sided with those exercising the right of petition to change the law and did not allow this chilling lawsuit to go forward. This is a significant ruling for animal lovers and for anyone petitioning their local or state government for legislative change. The Superior Court’s failure to dismiss the lawsuit against me was dangerous, chilling, and disheartening, but fortunately this appellate decision rights that wrong and affirms the importance of robust public debate and citizen activism.” ~Marcy Winograd

The court ruled that the statements in her articles and television interview relate to the supposed poor treatment the pony ride and petting zoo animals received, and either directly or inferentially solicited public support for her petition to cause the City of Santa Monica to take action to end the pony ride and petting zoo.

BACKGROUND

In March 2014, Winograd launched a petition to close the pony ride and petting zoo featured at the city-sponsored farmers market blocks from her home in Ocean Park. She first learned the pony operators were suing her when a reporter contacted her to get reaction to the operators’ lawyers’ press release announcing the lawsuit.

On September 9, 2014, after hearing arguments from proponents and opponents of the pony ride and petting zoo, the Santa Monica City Council voted to seek alternatives to the pony ride and zoo when the operators’ contract expired, and in May of 2015 the City of Santa Monica closed the animal exhibit after twelve years of ponies circling round and round on hard ground – all the while tied to a metal bar.

At the time, the lawsuit was filed some 1400 people had signed her petition – including school board members (now State Senator Ben Allen), former planning commissioners, two former mayors of Santa Monica, a minister at the Church of Ocean Park, and several merchants on Main Street.

While the Superior Court dismissed the entire SLAPP suit against her co-defendant Danielle Charney, the judge left much of the lawsuit against her intact. On appeal, however, she prevailed on the ground of legislative privilege – in other words, the Court agreed that all of her advocacy efforts were connected to the City Council’s legislative decision and were therefore absolutely privileged from civil suit.

Just breathe

“This is a huge victory for those who value robust public debate, the First Amendment, and legislative advocacy,” said Winograd. “This is good news, indeed.” ~Marcy Winograd

“This is an important decision for animal advocates, and for anyone campaigning to make change through our legislative bodies. The superior court’s ruling failing to toss the lawsuit out in the first instance was dangerous, chilling and disheartening. This appellate decision rights the legal ship and properly restores a very heavy burden to be borne by any plaintiff attacking public advocates.” ~Ira L. Gottlieb, Labor Attorney

I LOVE MY FIRST AMENDMENT

The First Amendment (Amendment I) to the United States Constitution prohibits the making of any law respecting an establishment of religion, impeding the free exercise of religion, abridging the freedom of speech, infringing on the freedom of the press, interfering with the right to peaceably assemble or prohibiting … you get the drill.

Like Marcy, I am an activist, writer and political citizen who loves robust debate.  I love my freedom of speech so much that I self-funded this platform to express my ideas, because two minutes at a City Council meetings was not cutting it for me, and emails were not working for me to accomplish the goals I set to work at.

“Free speech not only lives, it rocks,” Oprah Winfrey, 1998

Remember the  multimillion-dollar defamation lawsuit by Texas cattlemen against the famous talk show host? The Amarillo, Texas, jury, decided the television talk show host did not maliciously harm the U.S. beef industry in a 1996 program on mad cow disease.

 

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Oprah Winfrey Harvard University commencement address, 2013

 

“I will continue to use my voice. I believed from the beginning that (the lawsuit) was an attempt to muzzle my voice, and I come from a people who have struggled and died in order to have a voice in this country. And I refused to be muzzled.” ~Oprah Winfrey

I’m a media and communications professional, not as wealthy as Oprah, but in the same field.  Lawsuits are part of the game, people get offended and then use the compassion rhetoric to manipulate my speech.  I refuse to censor myself, therefore, I pass each post through a legal advisor to protect the platform.   I’m in the perspective business.  This is my point of view and you are welcome to make comments below.

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TOUGH LOVE, TOUGH LUCK & MY OWN VOICE

My friend Holly Mosher, whom I’ve written about in this blog, is concerned about my last post because she felt it was a leap to call what Ms. Christopolos said Nazi rhetoric. She wanted me to come from the place of compassion and manners that I laid out in the post.  I value her opinion and that of a small group of men and women who are mentors, advisors and friends.  They supported the post.  They didn’t find anything wrong with it.  Remember,  a month ago I wrote about the time it has taken for me to get the discipline to write again.  After all that trouble, I do a disservice to my readers if I’m not honest with my POV.  I must show up as authentically on the page, as I show in life.  Yes, I’m the Founder of Compassionate Santa Monica, that does not mean that I will compromise my journalistic identity, integrity and style.  I must be transparent in my perspective.  Sometimes, it’s time for tough love, is still love, just a different kind.  Was I compassionate?  You bet I was.  I was compassionate to the millions of Jews who died in the Holocaust, the survivors, and descendants that live in and out of Santa Monica.  Ms.Cristopolos comment was inappropriate and offensive to me and others.  Upon research, I found a quote under the inspiration tab of her social media Pinterest that proves my point:

Exist Elena

What you want me to say?   It makes perfect sense. It’s self-explanatory. Those are her terms, she values the statement enough to post it in social media.  Is this a slap to our faces?  You be the judge of that. She owns it, and she shows it.  That is all.

I will always choose love

On the other hand, I exist on a different term,  I’m not perfect, I own my flaws and humbly apologize when needed.  I stand by what I write because it always comes, and will continue to come, from love.  Follow me here: LOVE

“It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.“
– Ralph Waldo Emerson

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DIVERSITY MANNERS

By: Zoë Muntaner

I have been told to never let my mood dictate my manners. Is a practice that takes decades to cultivate, and even more to sustain.  In the world of politics, where jabs are constantly thrown at you, the challenge is to keep calm under pressure.  Politics are not for the thin skinned, fragile or coward.

If you are a political citizen, at some point you will become passionate about ideals and campaigns, it is wise to be vigilant about emotions that potentially trigger crisis or disaster, which will later require the skill of a professional to manage.

Am I willing to suffer for this? “ is the question I always ask myself before commiting to action.

“You have to pick the places you don’t walk away from” ~Joan Didion

Experience has taught me to be mindful on the passions I choose. Passion: (n.) from Late Latin passionem “suffering, enduring” stem of Latin pati “to suffer, endure, to hurt.”

I’m Latinx therefore my DNA is already infused with passion. Warning: Proceed with caution.

Manners are the basic building blocks of civil society” ~Alexander McCall Smith

DNA, NOW & CULTURAL APPROPIATION

Cultural Appropiation is the adoption or use of elements of one culture by members of a different culture.  This week’s Santa Monica Downtown Neighbors Association and North of Wilshire Neighbors Association event was themed “Block Party”.  DNA is chaired by Elena Christopoulos a white young female and NOW is chaired by Troy Harris a black  young man.

I grew up going to block parties in Puerto Rico and New York.  So last night I dressed in washed out jeans, plaid shirt, sweater on my waist, LA Dodger cap and sandals. Most guests were overdressed. Travis Pagel and Peter James, the planners who are on the DCP road show were on point with their dress code.  They are busy, and have the toughest  job in town: sell a project that will alter the feel and character of downtown Santa Monica.  I admire their tenacity and have compassion for the trouble they go through doing their job.

I was greeted by a new Santa Monica resident whom I met at the Santa Monica Democratic Club meeting where David Martin presented the DCP. I was surprised when he told me he became a board member of DNA within months after moving to Santa Monica. His name is Wellington Moreno, we connected because he is Dominican from the Bronx, you know me, I love my color people. Mr. Moreno greeted me with a warning: “I hope you are not coming here to cause any trouble”.  It can only go uphill from there, yes?  Wrong. Next stop was the sign in table to get my ticket for a free drink (the invitation said drinks, as in plural).  I shook hands with Ms. Christopoulos whom I contacted months before to discuss Compassionate Santa Monica.  She also serves in the Santa Monica Commission on the Status of Women. I thought it would be easy to sit and meet, after all, it is part of her job. Correct? Wrong again.  I was snubbed and unfriended from her Facebook page.  I’ll take my speech somewhere else, not everyone has a taste for compassion in this town.  Take note, Santa Monica is the first city in LA County to sign the Charter for Compassion, and the 4th city in the whole state of California.  Did I mentioned it was a unanimous vote by our City Council?  It was, back in September 2013.  I have been in the compassion movement for three years now.  Not an easy task.  I am a developer of sorts, I build compassionate cities, and it is the slowest growth of all developments.

Around 7:30 PM speeches started.  Ms. Christopoulos time came up and she scolded the audience because they were not listening to her, and ask people to be quiet. I do event planning through my company New MOON Media & Communications.  My piece of free advice: never give alcohol and food to your guests and wait more than 30 minutes before starting the speech portion of an event. When her please didn’t work, she deployed her bomb:

“I am half German, so you know, I have all the time in the world” ~ Elena Christopoulos, Political Consultant, Speaker, Communications Consultant, President of DNA & Commissioner of the Status of Women in Santa Monica

Should I be scared?  What does that mean? Oy vey!

My grandfather Maximillian Cohen was Jewish, I was raised Catholic. I’m surprised to find out that Elena has a website offering political advisor, communications, and speaker services.  Interesting choice of words and attitude, especially since she was stressing civility and diversity throughout the night.  Entitled?  You be the judge of that.

My issue here is that I’m commited to moving the needle of diversity in Santa Monica as much as I can.  I’m also commited to policing its authenticity and control any cultural appropiation to advance a political agenda.

“Cultural appropriation typically involves members of a dominant group exploiting the culture of less privileged groups — often with little understanding of the latter’s history, experience and traditions.” ~Nadra Kareem Little, Race Relations Expert

According to Wikipedia, block parties are reported as a World War I innovation originating from the East Side of New York City, where an entire block was roped off and patriotic songs sung and a parade held to honor the members of that block who had gone off to war. Traditionally, many inner city block parties were actually held illegally, because they did not file for an event permit from the local authorities. However, police turned a blind eye to them.  Block parties gained popularity in the United States during the 1970s, particularly within the hip hop community. Block parties were often held outdoors and power for the DJ’s sound system was taken illegally from street lights, as referenced in the song “South Bronx” by KRS-One.

This was not one of those block parties, evidenced by the end portion of the evening.  After Peter and Travis DCP presentation, only board members were allowed to ask questions because, after all, they are paying for the party, those were her literal words.  WOW!  I was raised to have my guests be the center of attention and cater to their wants and needs.  That’s how I roll!

“Tact is the art of making a point without making an enemy” ~Isaac Newton

ENTRE BROMA Y BROMA…LA VERDAD SE ASOMA (Google it!)

It gets better! Tim Harter, Senior Field Representative of Assemblyman Richard Bloom (Jewish) California State Legislator Office was a speaker at the event as well.  He later posted in Facebook about the event:

Community engagement is a vital function of a healthy community!! Learning about the Downtown Community Plan with the Downtown Neighborhood Association (DNA) and North of Wilshire (NOW). ” ~Tim Harter, Board Mamber of NOW 

“Soon, perhaps in the next few weeks, the California legislature will vote on Bloom’s controversial bill (AB2844) “California Combatting the Boycott, Divestiture, and Sanctions (BDS) of Israel Act of 2016.” This bill – also co-sponsored by State Senator Ben Allen (D-Santa Monica) – would bar state and local contracts with any private company boycotting Israel and its occupation of the West Bank and East Jerusalem. Private companies refusing to demolish homes or run segregated bus systems in illegally occupied territory could find themselves on a government blacklist, as Bloom’s bill – reminiscent of the McCarthy era – requires the state Attorney General to keep a list of Israel boycotters.” ~Marcy Winograd, Santa Monica Daily Press

I wonder how Bloom and Harter feel about the Nazi rhetoric of Ms. Elana Christopolos. Does Ms. Christopoulos is aware of the Jewish Community in Santa Monica?  A worthy political advisor has to be cognizant of those details.  Where she lacked in diversity understanding she has in financial resources, evidenced by her website.  I am going to hold on the blonde jokes, I don’t want the backlash this weekend. Seriously, can someone give this lady a better script?  If this is how she sells diversity, is time to call the crisis management team. Oy Vey!

 

It strucked me as odd that Ms. Christopoulos presented Santa Monica as the ideal space to live for her because she can:” jog in the morning, hike at noon and surf in the afternoon.”  She is one fit woman for sure!  Skinny Blonde, would be an appropiate title for a fitness blog (I charge for my ideas just in case). I can’t relate to her speech. I’m working to establish the board of Compassionate Santa Monica, plan and execute fundraisers, raise capital, manage a startup: diversitymatters.co and run New MOON Media & Communications.  In other words….I have to work.  I don’t have the luxury of spending my days working out for a skinny bod.  I schedule an hour of yoga or fitness class and 30 minutes of steam room in the evening at the Water Garden Bay Club to keep my mojo going.  There are countless of Santa Monica residents that do not have the luxury of wellness, despite the fact that Santa Monica was a finalist of the Robert Wood Johnson Foundation for their culture of wellness, and won the Bloomberg Philantrophy Award for the Wellness Project.  Food for thought.

Rudeness

 

AUTHENTIC DIVERSITY: TACO CHALLENGE & BE VISIBLE

Raising LATINO voter registration is something I’m involved in through an initiative from Beatriz Acevedo mitu Network, a Santa Monica Media Company.

Mitu as the voice of Latino millennials is committed to inspiring Latino youth in civic engagement. While Latinos may be driving population growth, only one of three Latino millennials are using their voice to vote. We are represented in numbers, but we are not represented in votes.

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As the largest digital media brand, they are able to harness video content and social activations to inspire young U.S. Latinos to take action and make their voices heard.

They have created a unique crossbreed of content that has engaged their audience a million times over. By intersecting the world of hard news and popular culture in a social-friendly format, their audience has not only watched their video content, but has become engaged in the national discourse. For example, Mixing a pop icon, like Selena, and creating a song that encourages people to vote, in the Selenagram Voting video, has garnered over 1 million views, over 14,000 shares and comments like this “Wow we have power in numbers!!!!! Latinos stand up, get involved, and vote for the only candidate that has our best interest.” Not only are people commenting on the video, but they are commenting on the comments. We’re watching Latino millennials become an active part shaping the future of our country.  The power of social video with their community is very powerful and mitú will always use it to engage and inspire our youth.

Beatriz is an inspiring role model and speaker,  we reconnected three weeks ago at the BE VISIBLE Event at Cal State LA, where I found my tribe.  When I was tasked with asking her a question after her presentation, I brought the issue of Santa Monica’s  at-large vs. district elections debate.  That’s how I became aware of the Take Action Commit Others Challenge. #TACOChallenge

Be Visible LatinaTo learn more about Be Visible go here: BE VISIBLE

“We will use mitú’s massive social reach through its video content to engage and inspire Latino millennials to have a say in how our country will be run and encourage them to get out and vote.
We are excited that so many celebrities and social influencers have joined our T.A.C.O. Challenge by agreeing to take action and commit others to vote,” ~Beatriz Acevedo, President and Co-founder of mitú.

Join us tomorrow at the #TACOChallenge.

The special events will feature live performances, food and voter registration booths. Los Angeles Mayor Eric Garcetti is a supporter of this movement and will be onsite helping to get voters registered.  Other expected event guests include Rosario Dawson, Richard Cabral, Diego Boneta, Nick Gonzalez, Jackie Cruz, Efren Ramirez, Chef Marcela Valladolid, La Santa Cecilia, Maya Jupiter, Kat Dahlia, Eric Ochoa “SUPEReeeGO”, Luan Palomera, Yulema Ramirez.

Rosario Dawson is excited to join the movement and attend the event. “Latino millennials are the face of the new American majority. Together, we have a responsibility to transform our democracy and ensure that every person has a voice in the political process,” said Dawson. “That’s why I’m proud to be a part of a historic effort to register and activate 1 million Latino millennials. This election will be decided by us, all of us, and we must do everything in our power to ensure that we create the kind of future that we know is indeed possible,” she continued.

Organizations dedicated to helping mitú reach the voter registration goal include, City of Los Angeles, Revolve Impact, Toberman Neighborhood Center, Divine Forces Media, NCLR, FWD.us, Rock the Vote, CHIRLA, Voto Latino, Define American, Mi Familia Vota, LULAC, United We Dream, NHMC, NALIP, Homeboy Industries, Center for Community Change, LifeBoxset, Communities in Schools, Youth Justice Coalition, Homies Unidos , Gathering for Justice , Project Kinship , Anti-Recidivism Coalition, Sankofa, The Courage Campaign, Inner-City Struggle, New Earth, Street Poets, Alliance for Community Empowerment, Arts for LA and All of Us or None Los Angeles.

WRITING AS MEDICINE

The daily task, practice and dicipline of writing allows me to process ideas that would otherwise go unexamined.  I proudly belong to the Joan Didion school of thought:

“I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking, what I’m looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.”~Joan Didion

To have a forum to express my ideas freely is part of my wellness project, is healing.  Oh, yes I also have a company that provide wellness programs.  I am a certified Kundalini Yoga and Pilates Instructor.  You can find more information about us here: The Wellness Project.  We were in business way before the city of Santa Monica came up with their original idea.

I welcome vigorous debate and treat our City Manager Rick Cole with the same transparent honesty and respect I do with Portia, the Metro Rail Ambassador at the Bergamot Metro Station, or Domingo the server at the Ralph’s market Bistro who travels three hours by bus to get to work each day in the morning and evening.  Is who I am, because I was raised in diversity, where manners were meant for everyone, not only those who agreed with my politics.

I leave you with sincere Shabbat Shalom wishes from the bottom of my heart!