A FATHER’S DAUGHTER

By: Zoë Muntaner

It’s rare, all right. A full Moon last landed smack on the Solstice in the 1940s. It’s the kind of thing that would have inspired the Mayans to shove a few extra in-laws from their pyramids – the sort of coincidence that would have made the Stonehenge folks haul additional stones into position. But that’s what’s actually happening this Monday, June 20. ~Bob Berman, Almanac Weekly

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The MOON is part of my business. This platform is the first digital property of  New MOON Media & Communications .  Click on name to learn more.  I started using the moon to illustrate the pronounciation of my last name. Phonetically, the first three letters of my father’s last name –Muntaner- sound like MOON. Instead of suntan, use moontan,  add er and the end.  Critical rolling of the “r”.  Practice makes perfection.  I’m fond of my Father’s name.

Yesterday was my first Father’s Day without my dad on earth.  I tried to write but something else was calling me to serve, my father would have done the same.  He would go to where he was needed before serving his personal or professional needs.  In his honor I went to the 2016 California Democrats National Convention.  I was there for the statewide delegation meeting that will be traveling to Philadelphia, PA from July 23 to July 28 for the 2016 National Convention.  My sister lives in Philly, at least I have room and board covered.  The hotels will be too chaotic for me.  I want to spend some time with my sister.  She is proud and supportive of my work,  I want to tell her more about it in person.  She actually sponsored one of my continuing education courses at General Assembly last month.   Since my dad passed away last July, we’ve become closer.  Death can be a catalyst to so many possibilities.  We’ll be together during the convention for the 1st anniversary of his passing, it sounds like the right thing to do.  It seems like is all part of a bigger plan, the stars are aligned, the mystery unfolding.  I just trust and let my faith guide me through the journey.

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As a young man Dad  enlisted in the US Military to serve.  I’m the proud daughter of a Veteran. It was quite the privilege to witness the burial flag on his casket during his military honors burial.  He was stationed in Germany and travelled throughout Europe during his youth as part of his service to this County.

My father and I had a special relationship.  Mom said we were the same, which means we butted  heads a lot.  Jewel sings: “In the end only kindness matter….We are never broken”.   For a while I felt seriously broken,  it propelled me to seek help to heal a wounded perspective.  The only thing from him I brought back with me to Santa Monica after his funeral, was an owl ring he wore on his pinky finger.  He collected owls, they represent wisdom, that symbol was important to his values.

“Many children have grown up with nursery stories of wise old owls. From the ancient Greek legends to the wise owls in Wini the Pooh and The Owl and The Pussycat, we have all seen images in folk tales of owls as the quintessential bearers of knowledge and sagacity.  From ancient Athens, the silver four-drachma coin bore the image of the owl on the obverse side as a symbol of the city’s patron, Athene Pronoia, the Greek goddess of wisdom who, in an earlier incarnation, was goddess of darkness. The owl — whose modern scientific name Athene carries this heritage — came to represent wisdom from its association with the dark (Saunders 1995). The owl was also the guardian of the Acropolis (Holmgren 1988), and the Roman statesman Pliny the Elder wrote that owls foretell only evil and are to be dreaded more than all other birds (Rackham 1997, as recounted in Martin 1996).  In many other cultures, owls represent wisdom and knowledge because their nocturnal vigilance is associated with that of the studious scholar or wise elder (Saunders 1995). According to one Christian tradition, owls represent the wisdom of Christ, which appeared amid the darkness of the unconverted (Saunders 1995). To early Christian Gnostics, the owl is associated with Lilith, the first wife of Adam who refused his advances and control. The owl had a place as a symbol in the King Arthurian legends since the sorcerer Merlin was always depicted with an owl on his shoulder. In Japan, owl pictures and figurines have been placed in homes to ward off famine or epidemics (Martin 1996)”.  ~Griffith Chen, Full-stack developer QUORA

The ring in my finger holds a daily reminder of hope.  It guides my choices and decisions the way dad wished I would be in the world.  My father did the best he could, I made peace with that.  He was the father of an imperfect daughter, I hope he made peace with that.  When he got ill, I went to visit him for a month.  He was bedridden by now, mom was his nurse 24/7.  It was hard for both of us.  He was so happy to see me when I arrived home at 4 AM.     The following day he sat in his rocking chair, I sat close to him, he looked to the horizon… his eyes filled with tears.  He started to cry.  Nothing was said, we both knew this was the last visit we were to spend as father and daughter.  I had to be strong for him.  With my silence, I did my best to let him know I would be fine.  Perhaps he was scared.  He didn’t know if I would be able to take care of myself as a single woman.  There were so many things unsaid.  I didn’t give him the joy of grandchildren. His name will end with me and my sister, unless I decide to adopt a child later in life.

Memories flood with fierce intensity.  I’ve learned that only I can unlock the door of my past and walk away.  My father didn’t have healthy parenting skills modeled by my grandfather, who immigrated from the island of Mallorca in Spain to Puerto Rico looking for prosperity.  He passed on from lung cancer, when my father was 17 years old leaving my dad as the head of a household of five.  I can only imagine what that did to his psyche.

Therefore, I’ve done as well as any woman could be expected to do under those circumstances.  Slowly but surely, my heart melts little by little.  I forgive the mistakes that were part of my upbringing.  The pictures above are of my grandfathers.  Left, Antonio Muntaner Flaquer and right, Maximilian Cohen (Abuelo Max).

“Everyone who plays a part in our lives offers something we might learn.”~Courage to Change  p. 335

At his funeral there were mended relationships from old family friends, everyone and then some showed up to pay their respects even though it was in a holiday weekend where most locals were out of town traveling.  I was surprised to see business leaders and politicians show up.  He was dad to me, for others he was a pillar in the community.

I learned to have a political, business and service mind from him.   He was always involved in some type of community service or volunteerism venture.  That’s who he was at his core, a man for others.   An old friend of mom and dad shared with us that when their father died they had nothing to eat, my father told my grandfather and showed up at their home to bring candy to the children.  He offered his unconditional support to them, with his already limited means.  That’s my DNA!  There is so much more I can write, but my intention is to honor him with actions not words.  He left me a ring, I give him Jewel.

FATHERS AMONGST US

There are other fathers around us worth mentioning here, serving families, cities, state, and communities.  First, I must talk about our City Manager Rick Cole. Having once been an elected official, he learned that much of what often passes for politics involves superficial soundbites, announcements of good intentions, oversimplification of complex issues and feel good symbolism. Both he and I understand the importance of these dimensions of public life, but his focus is on making measurable progress on key priorities that make a difference in the lives of real people here in Santa Monica.

My focus is on making policy that has intelligence, integration and impact.  Policy that creates more transparency and equity amongst ALL residents of Santa Monica.  I’m not a member of City Council, but I bring attention to the ideas that matter to me.  That’s how Santa Monica became the first city in LA County to sign and affirm the Charter for Compassion.  He is actively working on increasing capacity to deliver measurable results in two broad ways — one, better organization on how they do their work, which is music to my ears…. and two, work in greater partnership with other public agencies, NGOs, businesses, informal community groups and citizens, which sounds like a great prospective for Compassionate Santa Monica.

He visited Louisville KY, Mayor Greg Fisher last week.  Fisher is the man I spoke during my 2014 campaign for Santa Monica City Council, he ran on a compassionate platform and won.  The compassion games started from Seattle, WA calling game on Louisville, KY.  I met him at the Empathy and Compassion Conference in San Francisco, CA right after 2014 election.

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Mayor Greg Fisher at the Empathy & Compassion Conference in San Francisco, 2014.

I’m hopeful and patient.  I’m also disappointed that the City Council unanimously embraced the Compassionate City designation but has done little to actualize it. I assume that he has the same complaint, but from a different angle.  When he took the City Manager job, he told the Council, privately and publicly, “Your problem is that you have 15 top three priorities.”  I know which is priority 1,2,3: DEVELOPMENT AND DENSIFICATION.  I’m all in for affordable housing development and slow growth, but we have an issue of ideas brewing on a pot of misinformation and people are drinking the KOOL AID in Santa Monica.  Mr. Cole and his predecessor said publicly we don’t need development for revenue. Cole publicly said the future of Santa Monica lays in BETTER not BIGGER.  I’m getting some cues here. YOU?   The way I see it, City Council hired Cole to make magic happen here in Santa Monica, at the same time they are telling him how to do his job.  A receipe for disaster.  Lots of compassion for the man.

He and I both could spend the entire day listing the laudable projects, promises, policies and priorities embraced by our City, the last one being Diversity and Inclusion, which I brought to their attention, thank you very much!  There is almost no idealistic, progressive concept our City government won’t enthusiastically adopt, except the Anti- Corruption Act from Represent US and Safe Cities from UN Women.  I’ve been working with both initiatives for two years and have requested them be added to the agenda of City Council.  Other leaders are working strategically to take credit for it.  Cue: Elena Cristopoulos: you are being watched!

Mr. Cole explained to me the problem is governmental capacity to actually pursue simultaneously all these worthwhile endeavors — and produce measurable progress instead of simply raising unrealistic expectations.  The issue I see is that, despite having the communications resources, the city has failed in a cohesive strategy to inform its residents and build trust.  It is an understatement to think we are living distrustful times, as he expressed at the Civic Auditorium Planning Department- “I Love Downtown Santa Monica” event last week.  The trust is so fractured, broken and damaged, it will take a miracle to restore it.  Start praying people!

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When all is said and done, the challenge Mr. Cole has is how he would like to be remembered.  As someone who stood by its residents preserving what they have so dearly built by improving its infrastructure ? Or, someone who sat quietly and did the will of private interests funneled by the Chamber of Commerce,  and other non for profit institutions.  Someone come to our emotional rescue!  I’m confident he will make Santa Monica the best of the cities he has managed.  He has to. I have a good feeling about it and hope he does not let us down.  The earmark for the field was a flawless start, don’t you think?

His daughters are going to college, he has more time to focus on his new children (Santa Monica residents and City Council), once he moves to Santa Monica he will get a feel for what truly matters.  The LA Times didn’t call him the Guru of City Hall, just because he is chill.  The guy has some serious policy game. As a glutton of curiosity, I would like to know the neighborhood he will choose to call home. Don’t you?

A shout out to father and son Mayor Eric and Gil Garcetti (Where do I start? It will take me a whole new blog…coming in cowple of months, stay tuned), Muhammad Ali ( As my father, he suffered from Parkinson’s disease, was a man of faith and service to others), David Dorfman (IDEAS LA Swami), Governor Jerry Brown ( allowed SB 254 The “New” Overturn Citizens United Act to go to the ballot without his signature), Senator Bernie Sanders (My Jewish Hero who has transformed the political landscape this election cycle).  They are not perfect, who is amongst us?  Do I agree with every single of their stances? No.  Do I think they are doing good work?  Absolutely!  There is always room for improvement, that is the fabulous thing about life, every day we wake up with that challenge.

Ultimately the force that underlies all things in the Universe, which I choose to refer to as God, is the Father/Mother figure that deserves the loudest shout out.  I’d be lost without its guidance and support.  The mystery of that relationship is one of my sources of inspiration and service.  Without it nothing works.  Thank you God. Hebrew National hotdogs tagline reads: “We answer to a higher authority”

LATINO CAUCUS OF CALIFORNIA DEMOCRATS

According to Marcy Winograd early morning Facebook post from the the Latino Caucus of the CA Democratic Party in Long Beach, a packed room shouted, “Primary them!” in reference to Assembly members  Richard Bloom (D-Santa Monica), Adrin Nazarian (D-Van Nuys), and Marc Levine (D-Novato), three of the Dems who voted recently not to support farm worker overtime for those toiling over 8 hours a day, stooping in the fields, breaking their backs to deliver grapes, lettuce and strawberries to our table. The Democratic  Party base is mad as hell at these corporate Democrats cozy with agribusiness. State senate leadership plans to bring back the farmworker overtime bill via the senate, then back to the assembly again. Urge  Bloom — one of ours — to rethink this and vote for farmworker overtime. (310) 450-0041.  Never the wrong time to do the right thing, Richard.   Thank you Marcy for letting us know.  All I have to say is:  ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

“Richard Bloom remains silent in the face of his disgraceful and inexcusable vote. We await the change.” ~Buddy Gottlieb, Labor Attorney 

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Marcy Winograd recently organized another delegation to urge Richard Bloom withdraw his AB2844 bill calling for a state enemies list to thwart the BDS campaign for equal rights for Palestinians and Israelis. After his bill was heavily amended by the farm worker overtime bill author, he and two other co-authors of the anti-BDS bill refused to support farm worker overtime — defeating the bill with their three decisive votes. She spoke with Bloom’s Chief of Staff in Sacramento about this and he said there was no retaliation, that Bloom simply felt for the growers facing challenges with the drought and increased water fees. Her thinking is if you can’t afford to pay overtime, you shouldn’t be running a business.

The Democratic party is facing a problem amongst the more progressive leaning membership.  Bernie Sanders campaign is the result of that crisis. The referenced politicians present themselves as progressives.  Yesterday, I spotted few of the new wave of candidates and leadership making their way, showing symptoms of the same syndrome.  Young men with miniscule amounts of power using it for their own personal gain and agenda.  Oh, the egos of these kids!!!!  I’ll be keeping an eye on them,  we deserve better than that.  Honest candidates are getting ready to serve.  To honor my father’s legacy of service, I serve by watching, warning  and writing.  Not under my watch, is all I have for tonight.

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Have an awesome Summer Solstice today and tomorrow.  May you have sunsets as gorgeous as this:

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Santa Monica Sunset with no filter shot with iPhone 2014.
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DIVERSITY OF IDEAS

By: Zoë Muntaner

Santa Monica City Council meetings can be a hoot or a total bummer, depending of your idea of fun.  City Hall steps where the Santa Monica Area Interfaith Council hosted a local Community Vigil for the Orlando victims was a setting for a hopeful outcome, after all we ended the vigil singing PEACE, SALAM, SHALOM.  You would think that transferred to City Chambers, correct?  It depends on your idea of peace.

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A person places a rose by a flag during a vigil at The Center, a community center for the LGBT community, Sunday, June 12, 2016, in Las Vegas. The vigil was for the victims of the Pulse nightclub shooting in Orlando. (AP Photo/John Locher)

I’m so glad I have this outlet, the best thing that has happened to me in a long time. If I don’t get my two minutes extended to finish an important presentation, I sit in a comfy chair or bed and write.  My voice is read globally from a phone, laptop or mobile device.  Thank you Jesus, Mary, Moses and all the prophets before me.  Speaking about prophets who were often persecuted — not an easy existence — when our City Manager Rick Cole told me he thought I was one of the prophetic voices in Santa Monica, I didn’t know how to react.  Is that a compliment or a premonition?  Last week I was TAKEN,  spent 5 days in captivity.  I was abused and my civil rights were violated left and right.  I was not charged with any crime.  My crime is advocating for the homeless, I’ve been voicing my opposition to the harassment and criminalization of this vulnerable population.  Remember a statement from a previous post?  My commitment to use my voice for the voiceless?  I walk my talk.  Is it a crime to be poor?  Is it a crime to be mentally ill?   The lack of compassion from members of the Santa Monica Police Department is a scandal in the making, actually is a scandal period, is made already.   The lack of ACTION from our city staff is an embarrassment.  Mr. Cole, is time to use that moral imperative you spoke two city council meetings ago.  Where is the moral compass of Santa Monica?  Wait for the story, it has so many layers, twists, and turns that I’m going back to my New York storytelling roots, tell it on stage to broadcast via livestream.  Believe the hype, it is gripping stuff.

”We are here today because we have a power we have yet to exercise” ~Eric Garcetti, Los Angeles Mayor on TACO Challenge Speech

I’m here to exercise the power of my voice.  I won’t be silenced!  Read previous posts, I LOVE MY FIRST AMENDMENT.  You mess with it, you are messing with a whole powerful global industry.  Do you think I’m fighting this battle alone? Seriously?  Bring it!  I’m fearless.  When it comes to standing for my rights and injustice of the powerless & voiceless, who are harassed day in and day out in our city and around the globe, something kicks in.  Think global, act local, I’m a localist!  For now, I’ll be focusing on local issues, because someone has to do the job,  it feels like a calling to me.

Back to City Council tonight, after reading Bill Bauer Monday Commentary on the Santa Monica Daily Press, I had hopes.  You would think council members read his column, apparently not.  Since he is way better writer than I am, here is a bit:

“The frustration level mounts, people become more unhappy  and dissatisfied with the way they are being served -or ignored.  Special interests are taking charge and we know what they want – benefit for their causes and conditions over the needs and the desires of the public.” ~Bill Bauer, Columnist Santa Monica Daily Press

Tony Vasquez provided enough fuel for me to write all night.  But I have a previous engagement to attend.  The order of business is IDEAS LA.  I’m writing this post, directly and live from the Broad Stage, in the glamorous city of Santa Monica.

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IDEAS Los Angeles is a project by Tel Aviv University-American Friends in partnership with dozens of corporations, private businesses, community organizations, institutes of higher learning and media outlets to create a space where global business leaders, futurists, studio heads, movie and television producers, healthcare providers, doctors, thought leaders, entrepreneurs, Tel Aviv University administrators, professors, and alumni can come together and share ideas.  IDEAS LA (Israel, Digital, Entrepreneurs, Arts, and Science) is hosted by American Friends of Tel Aviv University, a national nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting Israel’s largest institution of higher learning.

IDEAS wants to inspire people to think deeper and more broadly by engaging with inventors and innovators tackling some of the most exciting challenges in the world today.  American Friends of Tel Aviv University supports Israel’s most influential, comprehensive, and sought-after center of higher learning, Tel Aviv University (TAU). TAU ranked #75 globally and #1 in Israel in a 2015 Reuters survey of the 100 most innovative universities. It is one of a handful of elite universities rated as the best producers of successful startups, and TAU alumni rank #9 in the world for the amount of venture capital they attract.

It’s not an official IDEAS event without the brightest, most creative minds speaking!  That’s why I’m here, to pick their brains.  So far is a hoot!  This is the place to be today and tomorrow. The code LATINX will get each registrant 50% off all ticket prices.  Courtesy of yours truly, DIVERSITY MATTERS.

IDEAS on the future of digital technology in, Health, Lifestyle, Entertainment, and Media.  I GOT INVESTORS SUPER INTERESTED IN FUNDING DIVERSITY MATTERS! Woohoo!!!!  If you are an entrepreneur at any stage, from seed to funded, you must be here, is all I have to say.  Run don’t walk.  It is the event of the season!  Just before Summer Solstice, great timing, two days before Shabbat, perfection!SelfieMirror_20160616_111658

Inspiring leaders and visionaries like, Jonathan Littman President of Bruckheimer Television; Ayelet Zurer – Actress and Producer; Jonathan Gluck – Senior Executive and Corporate Counsel at Heritage Provider Network; Robert Watson – President of Nanthealth; Alon Shtruzman – President of Keshet International; Marc Graboff – President of Global Business & Legal Affairs for Production Management & Studios at Discovery Communications are just a few of the 70+ industry leaders that will be sharing their vision for the future of digital technology, at IDEAS Los Angeles.

Here is the LINE UP:

Adam Becker, Founder & CEO, Egg Stage
Adam Mendler, CEO, The Veloz Group
Alexis Madrigal, Editor in Chief, Fusion TV
Alicia Menendez, Anchor & Special Correspondent, Fusion TV
Alon Shtruzman, CEO, Keshet International
Andrew Wallenstein, Co-Editor-in-Chief, Variety
Audrey Melnik, Founder, Funnel Ventures
Billy Shaw Susanto, Co-Founder & CEO, Pundit
Brendan Farrell, Founder, How Loud Inc.
Dr. Bonnie Feldman, Principal, Dr Bonnie 360
Dr. Brennan Spiegel,  Director of Health Services Research, Cedars-Sinai Health System
Brian MacMahon, Head Honcho, Expert Dojo
Caitlin Thompson, Director of Content, Acast
Caspar Van Winterfeldt, Co-Founder & Managing Director, Baron VR
Chris Aston, Co-Founder & COO, Pundit
Dave Whelan, Managing Director, Bespoke Business Strategy Inc.
Rabbi David Wolpe, Chief Rabbi, Sinai Temple
Edmond Banayan, Founder & Editor, iHealthcare Perspectives
Fern Langham, Co-Founder, Amplify Effect
Gene Gurkoff, Founder & CEO, Charity Miles
George Eleftheriou, Co-Founder & CEO, Feel
Gilad Neumann, CEO, DogTV
Haris Tsirmpas, Co-Founder & CTO, Feel
Harry Nelson, Founder & Managing Partner, Nelson Hardiman
Heather Rees, Founder, Amplify Effect
Hillary Frey, Executive Editor, Fusion TV
Indu Subaiya, Co-Founder, Health 2.0
James Poole, Co-Founder & CTO, PopChest
Jessica Naziri, Tech Contributor, USA Today
John Bates, Principal, Executive Speaking Success
Jordan Mendler, CTO, The Veloz Group
Dr. Julian Henley, Co-Founder, HealOra
Prof. Joseph Klafter, President, Tel Aviv University
Karen Allen, Karen Allen Consulting
Katherine Lehr, VP of Operations, POLITICO
Klaus Badelt, Co-Founder, Kinonation
Lia Kislev, CEO, Wishi
Liz Plank, Senior Producer & Correspondent, Vox.com
Marc Graboff, President of Global Business & Legal Affairs for Production, Discovery Communications, Inc.
Mayaan Cohen, CEO, Hello Heart
Mette Dyrberg, Founder, MyMee
Mike Stone, CEO & Founder, MakersKit
Miriam Illions, Co-Founder & CMO, Hometalk
Moe Mernick, Head of Business Development, Hometalk
Neal Kaufman, Chief Medical Officer, Canary Health
Nick Desai, Founder & CEO, Heal
Oren Gavriely, CEO, BeatMed
Oron Afek, CEO, BookMD
Rob Rader, General Counsel, Ovation TV
Robert Watson, President, NantHealth
Roey Tsemah, Founder, Whitestone music
Ron Levi, Chief Content Officer, DogTV
Ryan Foland, Director, Blackstone LaunchPad at UCI
Seth Shapiro, CEO, New Amsterdam Media
Steve Baltin, Host, Riffing With on Hulu
Steve Bradbury, Principal, Vlocity Digital
Valerian Bennet, Founder & CEO, PopChest
Dr. Uri Nevo, Dept. of BioMedical Engineering, Tel Aviv University
Prof. Yair Bar Haim, School of Psychological Sciences, Tel Aviv University
Prof. Yael Hanien, Head of Nano Lab, Tel Aviv University

The initial lineup of featured start-ups includes:

Amplify Effect
Beatmed
CharityMiles
DinTV
EggStage
Heal
Healora
Hometalk
How Loud
Kinonation
MakersKit
PopChest
Pundit
Sentio Solutions
Whitestone Music

For more information or to purchase tickets to the IDEAS LA conference, please visit: http://www.ideaslosangeles.com, use code LATINX for a 50% off all ticket prices.

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